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Picky Eater Peace Plan

Two weeks to less mealtime conflict

Replace mealtime battles with a 2-week exposure plan, a grocery strategy, and "no pressure" scripts. Based on the division of responsibility: parent decides what and when, child decides whether and how much.

House Recipe3 min

INGREDIENTS

PROMPT

Build a 2-week picky eater plan. Ask for child's age, current safe foods, choking risk concerns, and family meal constraints (time, budget). Output: a 2-week exposure plan (tiny portions, repeat tries, paired with safe foods), a grocery list strategy (staples + 2 experiments), no-pressure scripts based on the division of responsibility, a snack boundary plan, and waste reduction tips. Keep it playful, low-pressure, and budget-aware. Encourage clinician input if weight or growth concerns exist.

How It Works

This recipe uses the Satter division of responsibility as its backbone:

you control what's served and when, the child controls whether they eat and

how much. The 2-week plan introduces new foods alongside safe ones with zero

pressure.

What You Get

  • 2-week exposure plan: tiny portions, repeat tries, paired with safe foods
  • Grocery list strategy: core staples + 2 weekly experiments
  • Scripts: "You don't have to eat it" and other no-pressure phrases
  • Snack boundary plan to protect appetite at meals
  • Waste reduction tips so experiments don't blow the budget

Setup Steps

  1. Tell your Claw about your picky eater
  2. Share child's age and current safe foods
  3. Note any choking risk concerns
  4. Add family meal constraints (time, budget)
  5. Get your 2-week plan, grocery strategy, and scripts

Tips

  • It takes 10–15 exposures before a child may accept a new food — patience is the method
  • Serving a safe food alongside the new one removes the pressure entirely
  • Snack boundaries (set times, not grazing) protect mealtime appetite
  • If there are weight or growth concerns, or signs of restrictive eating, loop in your pediatrician
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